Q. Can you really send a gift up to a year later?
A. This is one of those completely old school rules that we think is totally ridiculous. If you are a question mark on their gift list for an entire year it just comes across as rude. Try to send something within a month or so after the wedding.
Q. What’s the difference between a shower gift and a wedding gift?
A. Shower gifts are when we really recommend stepping it up with something personalized and unique. Typically the bride opens all her gifts in front of the guests, so it’s a fun time to give something people will ooh and ahh over. This can be a less expensive gift than the wedding gift. Check out Creative Shower Gifts here.
Q. Should I bring the gift to the wedding or send it?
A. If it’s a destination wedding or a wedding where the couple lives in another state, we definitely recommend sending it before or after. If you bring it to the wedding, make sure to hand it to the parents or the wedding planner, not the actual bride and groom.
Q. How much should I give?
A. It depends on your relationship to the couple, cultural norms and your financial ability. But we get asked this all the time, and to not beat around the bush, we typically recommend $50 – $75 per person invited. So if you are invited with a date, $150 – $200 is a nice amount. And whoever is invited, pays for both. If you are strapped for cash, give a creative or a personalized gift, if it’s something special the dollar amount won’t be what matters.
Q. Is it okay to go off the registry?
A. Yes! If you are close to the couple and they are the type to appreciate something personal or sentimental. Some creative ideas are a fashion sketch of the bride, personalized mugs or prints with their wedding song lyrics or give an activity gift that the couple can do together, cooking classes, wine tasting, etc.
Any questions you all have? Ask away…
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